"Partnership"

Originally Posted by Metalbestos

I think the problems with most partners are caused by feelings of resentment when one feels they are doing a majority of the work .
This seems to be the case here . The op feels like he is selling himself short . What he needs to understand is that he would only have half of what he has if he was not receiving the financial support from his partner . That and the trailer seem to be the only thing tying him to this agreement . Most partnerships end because one half feels they could do more alone.

I've tried the splitting thing I finish my load and then I just have to take his and finish it. Whenever he is around I feel like he just slows me down. Things would be better if I could just expand and work my way.

Originally Posted by JnJunk

I've tried the splitting thing I finish my load and then I just have to take his and finish it. Whenever he is around I feel like he just slows me down. Things would be better if I could just expand and work my way.

Sounds like nothing is stopping you but hesitation. Find a way to part where your both satisfied and then move on! You seem like a hard worker, so even if you take a little bit of loss it won't take you long to recoup it. Communication is the key to a successful partnership, without it it's doomed to fail. Good luck! Keep scrapping!!

I watched many friends and family with a partnership go down in flames over seemingly minor disagreements that took on a life of their own. Had the details been worked out in writing ahead of time things likely would have worked out. Time to move on in a way that will salvage your friendship, however in a discreet way try to find out what he is spending gas, vehicle maintenance, insurance etc..... That way you know exactly what you will be facing for costs when he is no longer a partner.

Seriously consider hiring a helper when needed for big projects. Upfront make it perfectly clear on what you expect, what defines your ideas of a job well done , and what you will pay. I will never "partner" with a friend or family member, yet i will help them out for fair agreed upon pay. No surprises and we all win.

Lastly, the time you get "working" with your dad is worth more than anything you scrap.