Welcome to the forum TC. yes you should keep reading those old forums. Throwing away 486's is a bad thing, but live and learn. You know not to do that again. Oh, and when you think you have read enough of the old stuff, start again, you can never tell what you might have missed.
There are plenty of great buyers here that you can ship to and they will, for the most part, sort of a little of the stuff for you. Also, the ones that I have dealt with are very honest with you if that is a concern for you. This is the best place to be.
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