mood swinga v.s. balance

This has been a favorite topic of mine for many years once I had a clear understanding of the process.

Mood swings,

What are they?

First we must look at what moods are. What are moods "constructed of"?

Put in simple terms they are the results of our feelings and interactions with others, the world around us AND within us.

What do I see as the most destructive element of the concept?

Pet ANGER monkeys that many just have to feed, prejudice and confused hate.

If a person prefers & enjoys the drama of argument and fighting they will have a tough TIME balancing themselves.


I have noticed that this popular world views it as fine and o.k. to try and deceive and trick others in order to try and balance out their personal lives.

When people $pend a lot of their TIME trying to THINK up ways to be more deceptive then others they become all the more confused within themselves.


I myself prefer to put my thoughts into the direction of HOW can I help others and also help myself.

In order to do this I put myself in their shoes and then look for the overall balance that complements all involved.

Balance is found within us first and then beyond us.

I understand my moods very well as well as the moods of others as it has been a interest of mine all my Life and as the days go by I have a even greater understanding of moods and the balance that is required in order to be FREE from the confusion and doubts that seem popular with many.

If people are spending their time trying to think up ways to confuse others more so then they are confused in order for them to be less confused "in maths",



How does such a popular concept end?

So what do you $pend your TIME thinking on?

How to be more tricky then others, working on your magic miracle show or starving those anger monkeys until they die and fall off your back?

ANGER, hate and prejudice are the seeds of unhappiness and sorrow to come.

If a person can't love themselves, how are they to love others?

If a person can't understand themselves, how are they to understand others any better?

If a person is angry, hateful and prejudice of others, why should they expect others to treat them much differently?

Most are waiting for "the other side" to please them first.

Life is what YOU personally make it.

Stop yelling at me ChildhoodDream! I'm having my man-period!!!

Quarter of men believe they have '''man periods'''

What a wussified society we have become

No, I have not heard of manpons. Please enlighten me.

Reminds me of one time I was at Wal-Mart and the check out lady told me that saying TP as an abbreviation for toilet paper was offensive to some.
Apparently when you say TP to Indians (or native Americans if you prefer) they think you are making fun of teepees. Like the teepees Indians used to live in.

More PC crap.

Everything's politically incorrect, it seems. I'll just be blunt as usual. People being politically correct offends me!

matdor: "The best offense is more offense!"

How to do this " in house " ?

Aww crap .... this is a deep subject. I'm not sure we should go down this road.

If we must .... let's start with stuff that people have heard of before then gradually shift to the esoteric.

I think most of us have heard the word worldview. Everybody has one. It's our own unique way of looking at the world around us. Obviously the worldview of a six year old girl is very different from that of a sixty year old man.

A more accurate way of describing a worldview is to call it "the assemblage point of perception".

For most people .... the assemblage point is firmly fixed. In other words ... they tend to look at the world in the same way most of the time.

Moods tend to cause a minor shift in the assemblage point. We tend to look at the world in a slightly different way depending on what our current mood is.

Alcohol also causes a temporary shift of perception.

Hallucinogens like LSD violently rip the assemblage point from it's position and cause it to shift wildly & uncontrollably. Just one trip will leave a person permanently changed. Repeated trips can cause permanent damage to the psyche and leave a person shattered. A rare few put themselves back together in a stronger form. Most will suffer a lifetime of mental illness. They lack the mastery of their assemblage point so it floats about at will. They shift helplessly from mood to mood.

Methods to regain mastery of a free floating assemblage point (control) are the subject of another post.

It's all so out of the ordinary .... it's hard to imagine that anyone would be interested.

'ANGER monkeys'....... That makes sooo much sense and is to become a new word of mine.

I do have a lot of trouble with people like that, they have to always 'one up' you and then if they do that, they then have to 'down one' on you. Its a endless cycle.
People that are angry/ weird right from the start and take libertys and every move or interaction has to benefit them only, like if it benefits someone else, then it had to have taken something from them and therefore demands creating a situation to take something from the benefactor.

That and 'created offensives'. Where someone 'creates' something thats offensive to them, on some idea or theory, just so they can take offense so they can justify a attack on their part.
At that point a succesful attack only brings the score back to 0 and so they then have to do another succesfull attack to balance the score in their favour.
If the attack does not 'score' then it has to be repeated again and again till it does, no matter how small the so called 'injustice' was to start off with.

We have people here in NZ who 'live' this theory.
If they cannot do something, and you can do it, then they have belittled themself and therefore need to reballance this equation out.
Thats where they start off from....
If you do then do it, you have belittled them twice... so therefore they need to attack twice.
If you make it seem easy, three times...
If they don't 'get one' in there and then, four times.... and so on.

Like if I was to help someone, they would have to watch as in their eyes it can only be done if they see it, if they cannot 'see it' it cannot exist, so therefore it cannot be done without them being there...
At that point they become in their eyes, 'the supervisor' and its only because they let it happen that it could happen in the first place..
So therefore, the person who does the work, is the underling and they are 'top dog' so to speak.
At the finish of the job. They have gained something, thats a injustice to them as it shows that they cannot do it themself and undermines them, so they have to make up for it.
Stealing some of your tools works for them..... Because you needed the tools to do the job, because you cannot do it without the tools, they have rebalanced the 'power'. And because they now have the tools, they, in theory, can now do the job, rebalancing the power in their favour...

Now, if you do not mention the tools going missing, their theory is that you have not noticed, so therefor it never happened to you, so expect some more tools to go missing....

And then from there on, they will mention these tools (to regain some upper hand) or ask if you can do the same job for them again....
Since you did it once, why should you not do it again for them? their theory...
If you say "No" its a 'slight' against them.
If you mention not having the tools, its a 'one up' for them, and a 'two down' for you....
And it goes on........

I actually have the book that teaches them how to do this, at home somewhere.
I found it in a pile of second hand books and theres no way I should have been able to get this book. Theres a lot of 'hoops' they have to go thru before they get this book, among other books...

Its just a 'broken brain' to me. If you fall into this trap, you are stuck in it from then on thru life, a screwed up little hate monkey....

I think to some degree or another we all believe we are the center of the universe. On some level we want to believe that we will live forever.

It's called narcissism.

Some take themselves more seriously than others. There are the psychopathic, sociopathic, narcissistic, borderline, and hisitoronic personality disorders to name a few. There is also a complex of behaviors that surround the alcoholic personality.

These folks tend to take everything personally. If a perceived injustice has been suffered they HAVE to even the score.They're also about dominance, submission, control,authoritarianism,money, force, and POWER.

< shrugs > There's no mystery to this.

If one wanted an opinion there are a couple of inconvenient truths that get in the way.

1: Power and control really don't exist. These things are just a human myth.

2: We're all quite mortal. At best ... we might have 100 years to live and then we're gone. Within a few generations all living memory of us will be lost. Even the name we have carved on a granite headstone will be weathered away in time and it will be as though we never even existed.

This understanding helps with keeping things in perspective.

Lol .... we're not nearly as important as we would like to think we are.

Originally Posted by bigburtchino

There's no Disney "magic"and I'm not the center of the universe. Com-on and bust my "bubble" why don't you! Now how do you expect me to get thru my cozy little life? Couldn't you let me down slowly?

Aww ... i'm sorry. Wasn't trying to pop your bubble Burt.

I was just responding to what CD & eesa were saying about all the crazy people out there giving the world heartburn. It's driven by egotism & the I-self.

To some degree or another .... don't we all try to remake the world in our own image ?

Perhaps it would be better to go sit under a tree for twenty years and watch the world go by before setting out upon a crusade to make it a better place ?

The path to hell is often paved with even the best of intention.