Ok well I went to - Garys you pull it which is a yard that you can pull off the items you need for your car, i pulled off three solenoids from other fords and as to what the chance of me getting 3 broken solenoids are I don't think so - - but same symptom - I am going to ark the starter next
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Plenty of spark there but nope touch the 2 poles causes a reaction almost like a short - maybe they sold me a bum starter